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"Letting Go"

2/18/2013

 
Below is a anonymously written poem called "Letting Go."   I heard Chuck Swindoll read it this morning on WJMM.  What a refreshing reminder that God has a work to do in each individual's heart, and I'm better off focusing on the condition of my own heart than focusing on "fixing" or controlling the heart of another.

LETTING GO



To let go doesn’t mean to stop caring,
it means I can’t do it for someone  else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it’s the realization that I can’t control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.


 To let go is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my  hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
I can only change myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
 

To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to effect their  own outcomes.


 To let go is not to be protective,
but to permit another to face reality.
 To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue,
but to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them.


  To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past, but to
grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more

Janine Johnson
2/18/2013 09:39:51 am

So very true but hard to sometimes let go and let God.

Victoria link
3/11/2013 02:15:12 am

Thanks, Aunt Jan!
Yes, trusting the Lord with everything can be just like eating a bucket of nails! I'm asking for His help on this one! :)

Sharon
2/24/2013 11:51:40 am

Thank you for sharing! Wonderful words.

Victoria link
3/11/2013 02:16:11 am

Sharon, I so appreciate your visiting this site and commenting! I know you are so busy - thanks for your support! :)

April
3/11/2013 06:51:54 am

Hey Vicki! I love your site! It is so uplifting, as is this poem. I am so proud to call you my cousin! Hope ya'll are doing well!

Victoria link
3/12/2013 04:10:39 am

Thank you sooo much, April! I am so glad that we get to connect a bit more this way. Suddenly the miles don't seem so far! How is your crew? How is Aunt Carolyn! Sure do miss her! :)


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